A few months have passed since that fateful morning at Tim Hortons and I’ve been encouraged to write an update on the subject. Okay – I’ll admit it – my fears have been proven wrong on this one and my hopes have been realised! 🙂 The group that met that day in June has continued to meet and share and grow into something completely different than I have ever experienced before. This small group is actually working! And working well, I might add.
It started with one person creating a private Facebook group (with a top secret name! shhh!) for us all to share thoughts, ideas, prayers – you name it. And it clicked – we connected! We’ve had a few BBQ’s together, met up for more coffee, movies, and we even did a weekend camping trip last month. This is nothing like what I remember small groups to be. This is different. We’re kind of making it up as we go, I guess you could say, but what we’re doing is working! We’re becoming part of one another’s lives and learning to love and care for one another. It’s genuine! And I love that.
We haven’t taken the traditional model and followed it at all – we’re not doing a Bible Study with a regular schedule of meetings – although we have nothing against that and maybe one day it might become part of it. I really don’t know. So far we’re just working on getting to know one another and experiencing one another through friendship and it’s been FUN! Who ever said you had to have a Bible study to be considered a small group anyway? Haha! And why just study it, when you can live it out, in true community?
There have been a couple of times where I had to stretch out of my comfort zone a little and at first I felt myself wanting to retreat, but I didn’t and I’m glad I didn’t. I’m taking baby steps and putting myself out there more and more. (Not an easy thing for an introvert to do.) I also find that I’m feeling very protective of this group. Part of me would really just like to keep it a secret and not let the world know how great it is. What if others want to join? What if I’m not comfortable with that? I like it the way it is now, how would others change the dynamics? It’s only been three and a half months and I know these are totally selfish thoughts, but these are genuine fears that I have, that I know I’ll have to deal with one day. I guess it’s all a part of growing, maturing and loving one another – and becoming more like Christ.
John 13:34-35 “Let me give you a new command: Love one another. In the same way I loved you, you love one another. This is how everyone will recognize that you are my disciples—when they see the love you have for each other.”